Nerves are normal (use them)
Before you speak, your heart may beat fast, like before a race or a birthday party. That fast heart means your body is getting ready, so you can say "I'm excited!" instead of "I'm scared."
- Feeling nervous before speaking is common. A racing heart, sweaty hands and a dry mouth are signs of high arousal: your body getting ready to act.
- Anxiety and excitement feel similar in the body. Both are high-arousal states.
- In experiments by Alison Wood Brooks (Harvard Business School), published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: General (2014), people who said "I am excited" before giving a speech were rated by independent judges as more persuasive, competent and confident than people who said "I am calm." Similar results showed up for singing and maths tasks.
- Practical steps before you speak: slow breaths, a short walk, a sip of water, and a sentence like "I'm excited to share this."
- If fear of speaking stops you from daily life, school or work, talk to a doctor or licensed mental health professional.
- Two minutes before you speak, sit or stand with both feet on the floor.
- Breathe in slowly for 4 counts and out for 6 counts, five times.
- Take a sip of water and a short walk if you can.
- Say quietly to yourself: "I'm excited to share this."
- Remind yourself that a racing heart means your body is getting ready.
- Start with your first line.
- Check: your breathing is slower and you have said the sentence out loud or in your head.
- If the fear stops you from school, work or daily life, talk to a doctor or licensed mental health professional.
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[Host] "Heart pounding before you speak? Good. Your body is getting ready."
[Text on screen: Anxious ≈ Excited] "Nerves and excitement feel almost the same inside your body."
[Screen: study headline on screen] "In one Harvard study, people who said 'I am excited' gave speeches that judges rated as more persuasive than people who said 'I am calm.'"
[Host] "So don't fight the energy. Rename it. Say it with me: I'm excited."
Record a 30-second video of yourself introducing who you are. Before pressing record, say "I'm excited" out loud. Watch it once and write down one thing you did well.
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I'm learning "Public Speaking" on The Future Market. Lesson 1: "Nerves are normal (use them)". What the lesson teaches: - Feeling nervous before speaking is common. A racing heart, sweaty hands and a dry mouth are signs of high arousal: your body getting ready to act. - Anxiety and excitement feel similar in the body. Both are high-arousal states. - In experiments by Alison Wood Brooks (Harvard Business School), published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: General (2014), people who said "I am excited" before giving a speech were rated by independent judges as more persuasive, competent and confident than people who said "I am calm." Similar results showed up for singing and maths tasks. - Practical steps before you speak: slow breaths, a short walk, a sip of water, and a sentence like "I'm excited to share this." - If fear of speaking stops you from daily life, school or work, talk to a doctor or licensed mental health professional. The exercise I'm working on: Record a 30-second video of yourself introducing who you are. Before pressing record, say "I'm excited" out loud. Watch it once and write down one thing you did well. I'm stuck. Please: 1. Explain the main idea in plain, simple words with one everyday example. 2. Walk me through the exercise one small step at a time. Ask me what I've done so far before giving the next step. 3. Don't just give me the final answer. Help me do it myself, and check my work when I share it.
I'm a parent helping my child (about 8 years old) with a lesson called "Nerves are normal (use them)" from the course "Public Speaking". Here's what the lesson says: Before you speak, your heart may beat fast, like before a race or a birthday party. That fast heart means your body is getting ready, so you can say "I'm excited!" instead of "I'm scared." The activity: Record a 30-second video of yourself introducing who you are. Before pressing record, say "I'm excited" out loud. Watch it once and write down one thing you did well. Please explain this so an 8-year-old understands: short sentences, a fun everyday example, and no hard words. Then give me 3 simple questions I can ask my child to check they understood, and a way to do the activity together, one tiny step at a time.
Sources
- Brooks, A. W. (2014), "Get excited: Reappraising pre-performance anxiety as excitement," Journal of Experimental Psychology: General (PubMed): pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24364682/
- American Psychological Association press release on the study: www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2013/12/performance-anxiety
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Quiz
In the Brooks (2014) study, what did people say before speaking that improved how judges rated them?
"I am excited."
Why can reframing nerves as excitement work?
Both are high-arousal feelings, so it's easier to relabel than to force yourself to be calm.
What are the four parts of the simple talk structure?
Hook, big idea, three points, close with one action.
What is a good replacement for filler words like "um"?
A short pause.
How many ideas should a slide have?
One.
What story shape does this course teach?
Situation, Problem, Action, Result, Lesson.
How should you ask for feedback?
With specific questions, such as "What was my big idea?" and "What was unclear?"
When and where did Toastmasters hold its first meeting?
October 22, 1924, at the YMCA in Santa Ana, California.
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