Selling is helping (the six-step conversation)
Selling is like helping a friend pick the right shoes. You ask where they'll wear them, show a pair that fits, answer their worries, and let them decide. You don't push.
- Open: greet, set the purpose and time ("Do you have 15 minutes to see if this is a fit?").
- Discover: ask questions and listen (Lesson 2).
- Present: show how your offer solves what they told you (Lesson 3).
- Handle concerns: answer questions and objections honestly (Lesson 4).
- Ask: invite them to decide (Lesson 5).
- Follow up: next step, in writing, on a date you both agreed on.
- A "no" is a valid result. A clear no is better than a maybe that drags on for months.
- Good selling only works with a good fit. If your product won't help them, say so.
- Open a notebook or a blank note and list your last 3 sales attempts, one per line.
- Write the six steps next to each one: Open, Discover, Present, Handle concerns, Ask, Follow up.
- Tick the steps you actually did in each attempt.
- Circle the steps you skipped.
- Write one sentence about what you will do differently next time for the most skipped step.
- Check: you can say the six steps in order without looking.
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[Host] "Sales isn't about tricks. It's a conversation with six steps."
[Text on screen: Open, Discover, Present, Handle, Ask, Follow up] "Open, discover, present, handle concerns, ask, follow up."
[Host] "Most people skip straight to presenting. That's why they get ignored."
[Text on screen: A clear 'no' is OK] "And remember: a clear no is a good result. It frees you to help someone else."
Write down your last 3 sales attempts (or times you tried to convince someone). Which of the six steps did you skip?
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I'm learning "Sales Fundamentals: Conversations That Close" on The Future Market. Lesson 1: "Selling is helping (the six-step conversation)". What the lesson teaches: - A "no" is a valid result. A clear no is better than a maybe that drags on for months. - Good selling only works with a good fit. If your product won't help them, say so. The exercise I'm working on: Write down your last 3 sales attempts (or times you tried to convince someone). Which of the six steps did you skip? --- I'm stuck. Please: 1. Explain the main idea in plain, simple words with one everyday example. 2. Walk me through the exercise one small step at a time. Ask me what I've done so far before giving the next step. 3. Don't just give me the final answer. Help me do it myself, and check my work when I share it.
I'm a parent helping my child (about 8 years old) with a lesson called "Selling is helping (the six-step conversation)" from the course "Sales Fundamentals: Conversations That Close". Here's what the lesson says: Selling is like helping a friend pick the right shoes. You ask where they'll wear them, show a pair that fits, answer their worries, and let them decide. You don't push. The activity: Write down your last 3 sales attempts (or times you tried to convince someone). Which of the six steps did you skip? --- Please explain this so an 8-year-old understands: short sentences, a fun everyday example, and no hard words. Then give me 3 simple questions I can ask my child to check they understood, and a way to do the activity together, one tiny step at a time.
Discovery: ask, then listen
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Present in their words
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Handling objections
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Ask, then follow up (legally)
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Honest selling and customer rights
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Final project
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Quiz
What are the six steps of a sales conversation?
Open, discover, present, handle concerns, ask, follow up.
What kind of questions should you use in discovery?
Open questions (what, how, why, tell me).
What's the difference between a feature and a benefit?
A feature is what it is; a benefit is what it does for the customer.
What are the three steps for handling an objection?
Clarify, acknowledge, answer.
Why is fake urgency a problem?
It can be a false or misleading representation, and it breaks trust.
What should you agree on if the answer isn't yes yet?
A specific next step and date.
What three things do most anti-spam rules expect in a marketing message?
Permission, a clear sender identity, and a way to unsubscribe.
How fast must an unsubscribe request be actioned?
Promptly, within the time limit your country's rules set.
Name a kind of contract that often has a cooling-off period.
Door-to-door agreements and memberships such as a gym (check your local rules).
What is a simple CRM?
A list that tracks each customer, last contact, stage and next step.
Final exam
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